Dr.Ruthless: About Dr. Ruthless®
Fresh, Fierce & Unabashedly Funny.
Every once in a while, someone comes along and not only leaves an indelible impression on you, but changes the way you perceive yourself and your place in the world. Melissa Soalt is one such person... Dr. Ruthless has a lot to offer the world." -- Black Belt Magazine's Woman of the Year
"Dr. Ruthless KICKS ASS!" -- BUST Magazine
"Melissa Soalt is probably the most powerful female self defence instructor in the world today." -- Geoff Thompson, legendary UK Self Defense Pioneer, Screenwriter & Author
"Fantastic ... You're a crusader for the cause!" Life On Purpose radio show host, Deb Colitti
"Melissa is a legitimate combat talent. She's explosive, fast and yeah she's diminutive, but how'd you like to get shot with a bullet her size? " Kelly McCann, Combatives expert, author, former CNN analyst
"We just love this woman to death! ..." -- Crook & Chase TV hosts
"Melissa, you are woman of power! It was just 3 hours of self defence training you gave to us, but the impact is for a lifetime.... the best self defence trainer anyone could ask for. I walked out the door a different person and stronger woman than I came in. You will see the difference!"
--- Seema Ks, Head Coordinator, TSLD, New Delhi, India
Melissa Soalt AKA Dr. Ruthless is an award- winning women's self defense expert, former private-practice psychotherapist and a Black Belt Hall of Fame recipient.
Named one of TOP FIVE "Tough Girls" by Black Belt in 2012.
A Black Belt Hall of Fame Recipient and Woman of the Year - awarded for her significant contributions to women's self defense -- in 2008 Melissa also received the Industry Award for Best Women's Self Defense. A frontrunner in full-force (padded-attacker) scenario-based methods, since 1986 Melissa has shown thousands of women how to protect themselves from danger and summon their primal powers to fight back and survive. She is widely respected for her no-nonsense methods, emotional depth, and unabashed call for all women to become physically literate in self-protection. Her Fierce and Female DVD has been hailed by law enforcement, street fighters and women's groups alike.
Melissa also has first-hand experience with attack. While living in Israel, then traveling across Asia on her maiden voyage into the world (mid-1970's), Melissa successfully fought off physical and sexual / rape attacks. She also endured violent groping and indignities-- and was rudely awakened to the mistreatment of women worldwide. Amidst Asia's towering and humbling antiquities, she learned she was a fighter--and birthed her reverence and respect for female disobedience. A decade later in Boulder, Colorado, after years of martial arts training, a terrifying home-alone encounter with a knife-wielding rapist led her to more down-and-dirty methods that "would become me." (She foiled that attempt.)
The founder and former owner of Model Mugging of Boston, in 1986, Melissa brought Model Mugging's scenario-based, training method to the East Coast. Under her dynamic leadership, aided by her background in psychotherapy and trauma recovery, it quickly emerged as one of the most successful full-force self defense schools nationwide-with specialized training for women, teens and men. Melissa's on-site seminars have been conducted at such notable institutions as Harvard, Polaroid, Hewlett Packard, Reebok, UPS, Procter and Gamble and the Miami Herald. Based in the US, she has also taught in Germany, Switzerland, India and Nepal where she has also worked with at-risk women and girls.
She is honored to have provided dedicated training and support to India's renowned group, Red Brigade Lucknow. Melissa also serves on their advisory board.
MELISSA'S MEDIA CREDITS HAVE INCLUDED: THE VIEW, NBC Nightly News, INVESTIGATION DISCOVERY, NPR, Asia News International, Bangalore Headline News, Seattle's Northwest Afternoon, Deb Colitti's Life On Purpose, FM RADIO KANTIPUR out of Kathmandu Nepal, where was interviewed in-depth. and numerous other shows and newcasts. Melissa was also the self defense expert for Investigation Discovery's premier episode on "DATES FROM HELL."
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Melissa has been cited or featured in national and international publications, including SELF, MARIE CLAIRE (South Africa) Woman's Day, The Wall Street Journal, HOLLYWOOD.COM, CosmoGirl, BLACK BELT, BUST, Germany's Stern Magazine, The HINDU, Newsweek Japan and The Prague Post. Her "DHARMA of DEFENSE" was featured on Feminist Pionner GLORIA FELDT'S site with rave reviews.
On a topic dear to her heart-- female journalists and the need for sexual assault preparedness training-- Melissa has shared her expertise with The Committee to Protect Journalists, has been cited in The American Journalism Review and The Ryerson Review of Journalism and was interviewed for a Q & A on POLITICS DAILY.
Melissa has also published feature articles, and penned a personal safety newspaper column; she blogged for The Huffington Post and guest blogged for FORBES (Being Nice Can Kill You) and was a columnist for Self Defense For Women Magazine. Her essay, Fierce Love: The Heart of a Female Warrior, was featured in a Warrior's anthology. Melissa is back at work on her first book—a paradigm-shifting work infused with artful narrative, PRACTICAL takeaway skills, and calling for women to embrace this deep-seated potential.
An impassioned and articulate presenter with a fresh voice, compelling messages and no-nonsense expertise, she welcomes MEDIA and PUBLISHING inquires. Please contact me here.
Gather The Women: A Personal & Urgent Note
These are perilous times for women and girls all over the world. Violence and sexual attack against women is pandemic. That this rages unchecked in the 21st century is an outrage and tragedy-- so I'm bringing my Fierce Female messages and methods to regions of the world where the skills and spirit of self defense, along with all efforts to stem this violence, are urgently needed. To effect lasting changes in safety and status, women and girls MUST enable this power, re-seed this consciousness and harvest its competencies.
Women must no longer outsource their protection to men. Half the world's population should not live in fear of the other half.
Not only is the learning of self defense vital to increasing women’s safety and to reducing the ills and indignities imposed by FEAR, but embodying the female warrior spirit is vital to restoring balance to the world--and ultimately to creating far more equitable societies. (To learn more about my views, go to FAQ).
To bring me to your locale, or to explore joining forces with efforts in your area, please contact me via email.
Michael Haynack is Dr. Ruthless' fabulous co-trainer for hands-on and full-force seminars.
A lifelong student of martial and combative arts, he holds black belts in Aikido and Karate and is an avid practitioner of Philippine blade, stick and empty-hand systems. He is also a certified Police Combat Shooting instructor and a certified instructor in Paul Vunak's "Progressive Fighting Systems." A personal protection specialist (e.g., bodyguard), former bouncer and police trainer, Michael has intervened in innumerable "battles," and has defended himself and others against single, multiple and armed attackers—individuals much larger than himself. At a whopping five feet, five inches tall, Michael brings a wealth of real world experience to his teaching.
Michael has been donning the 'Bulletman" armor since 1991 and is co-founder and former chief instructor of the Rocky Mountain Combat Applications Training. He has trained Special Forces in the applications of adrenaline-state training methods and has appeared in sundry self defense and knife fighting videos. An accomplished scout, tracker and aficionado of wilderness survival, he is well-versed in the scholarly study and practice of warrior arts, and is a passionate champion of women's self defense.